5 Things to make a dreamer in you, become your reality.

5 Things to make a dreamer in you, become your reality.

All of us are enamored by our dreams. Who doesn’t want to become an overnight success, just like waking up another day and watching thousands of fans sitting outside your house just to take one dekko of you? But it’s often veraciously said that good things in life can never be earned tractably because if they would have been, each and every person around us would have achieved that feat and the ‘esoteric’ success would become much mundane and hackneyed.

But still nothing in this world is impossible. Even impossible says that i-m-possible and hence almost all your dreams can become a reality and here are five mandatory things practiced by every successful person on earth in order to make their own dreams turn into actuality.

1. LEARN TO BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAM

The difference between a leader and a follower, a winner and loser; is just that the former one believe in himself and his dream and latter one, notwithstanding being bestowed with great dreams, never confides in himself. Hence the first step to make your dreams come true is, believing in your dreams. Confucius once said, “He who says he can and he who says he can’t are both usually right.” The only enemy that you have to fight is indeed in the enemy within you. The day you trounce the enemy within you, to believe that your dreams can come true, you would journey half the way to success at that moment only. Les Brown, the famous motivational speaker once said, “The easiest work I did was earning a million dollar, and the hardest thing I did was telling myself that that yes, I can earn a million dollar.”

2. Learn to Wait.

Lionel Messi, the legendary footballer once said, “It took me 17 years and 114 days to become an overnight success.” Was not that night too long! You have to tell yourself that Rome can never be built in one day. All the successful people around you are the product of their great dedication and thousands of hours of beating at their forte. To become a virtuoso at anything, you have to devote extremely relentless passion and indefatigable dedication. Let me tell you a wonderful story regarding this.

Once Pablo Picasso was sitting in a park and a lady came up and said, “Sir, I am a very big fan of yours. I have been following all your works and I just love your designs.” Mr. Picasso humbly thanked the lady. As soon as he thanked the lady the lady took out a paper and pen from her coat and asked Mr. Picasso to draw her countenance. In around twenty minutes Mr. Picasso drew a beautiful sketch and gave it to the lady. The lady was pretty ecstatic over it and thanked Mr. Picasso for the painting and started departing. Mr. Picasso suddenly asked, “Hey, where are my thirty million dollars?”  The lady was pretty shocked and exclaimed ,”Mr. Picasso, you just took twenty minutes to draw that and you are asking for thirty million dollars!” Mr. Picasso smiled and replied, “It took thirty years to become so much proficient to draw it in twenty minutes. Aren’t my thirty years worth thirty million dollars?”

I hope it’s lucid now, how much wait is needed to become successful.

3. Learn to get things done.

Just believing in yourself in not at all the only requisite thing to become successful. You have to go out and get things done. Ideas come to almost all of us; the ones who are ready to apply them steal the show while the ones who are not fearless enough to go out and take what they deserve in life continue to be extirpated. If you have got a dream, go out and turn it into reality. Nobody will bother about you till you achieve your dreams and hence you have to do everything yourself. Get up, go out and do things. Learn your craft, practice it every single day, leave no stone unturned in mastering the things you want to become successful at. You want to become an entrepreneur, learn everything you can about your subject, if you want to become a great sportsman, master all the tactics phenomenally.

You need to be phenomenal to beat the rest of the world and always keep in mind that, there are people around the world who are working twenty four hours a day to become successful and you have to beat them all, and this surely, is going to take a beating.

4. Learn to accept failure.

If you are trying something unprecedented, you are destined to fail. Failure would come to all of us and it’s the most wonderful thing that can ever happen to you. Yes, it is! Failure comes for two reasons. The first being, to make you aware of your shortcomings, to tell you about the lacunae you have left in your preparation and to give you one more chance to try again and this time with upgraded weapons.

The second reason is to check whether you are truly worthy of what you want or not. Almost all the people embark on big journeys, but the winners are those who are bold enough to dare any storm or gale. Around 99% of the people would fail and just forsake their work; there are only those 1% of the people around the world who wouldn’t abandon their dream, and ultimately those 99% would one day be working for the rest 1%.

 Failure is hard and that’s why it’s worth it. Life is not about winning every time but it’s about having the desire to learn from your failures and never jumping into desperation.

5. Never losing dedication.

Former Indian president Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam once said, “Dream is not that you see in sleep, it’s something that never lets your sleep.” If you are truly passionate about something and your life depends on it, your dream would never let you rest back; your dream would never let you be tired. Success demands excessive madness over something. Obsession at your craft is the key to success.

Now, just get up and start doing what you dream of. Imagine yourself living your dream and make your imagination a reality.

"NEVER, NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP"

-Winston Churchill

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