In this world, each one of us is busy looking fault of others. Due to our own exasperation and pique, we leave no stone unturned in finding the fault of others when anything is botched up; our brain might not even take a second to figure out the mistakes committed by others and automatically it would impute the whole credit of failure to others. If you fail in school, you would blame you teachers and parents, if your project fails in your office, you would be eagerly blaming the employees, if you lose one bout you would start cursing your coach and at the end of the day, your mind would always find a way to stop your inner consciousness to blame you. It would cast a somewhat vicious shadow on your thinking abilities that you won't be able to see any of your fault and this is the true reason for our resentments and dissatisfaction. Soon, when lot of things start going wrong and we develop a mechanism to blame everybody else (due to which nothing changes and things continue devastating), one day we would become discontented with our life and life would seem like a hell. As long as you try to put the blames on others, success, happiness, contentment and joy would always elude you in the best possible manner.
As Kabir has already said that when you search for yourself, you would truly find you that you the most crooked, careless and lethargic person. We all make mistakes in life but its a natural human tendency to shift all the bad deeds we do onto others and contrary to that extol ourselves for all the good things that happened and this truly is a sin that most of the people commit in their lives due to which they are not successful. As long as you try to preclude blame from being thrown on you and as long you try to unravel your own shortcomings you would never grow. If you think you can never make a mistake, you can never do anything new, you would just end up being a coward. Accept your part of the things that go wrong and if something goes right then credit all the persons due to which it went that way because the day you start recognizing your problems, your shortcomings, you become a leader; because a leader is one who blames himself for failures and others for success. Actually this is an outstandingly nice strategy; a leader is the most sagacious person because he blames himself for things and then learn from the mistakes. Never get disheartened for making faults, you are a human being and you are destined to be wrong innumerable times. The reason behind the success of all great men is that they have actually started recognizing their mistakes and blamed themselves for their own actions rather than shouting out at someone or something. By accepting their mistakes, they heeded to the lessons of failures, they molded themselves to perfection using each and every stone thrown at them to construct an unvanquishable empire and hence at last they achieves perfectness.
The same thing you can do, learn to credit yourself less and take the appropriate blame when you must. By taking blames, I am not saying that you must take blame onto yourself for each and everything and dive deep into depression and despair but rather than that take the blame on your part and learn to transforms your defeats to failures because we are actually much more crooked in our heart than anybody else and the one who finds most blames in others is the only one to be blamed.
JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT
JAI MA BHARTI
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