One of the biggest disaster of the world is tour expectations. Shakespeare, the biggest play writer, poet of the world and also the father of modern literature once stated that, "Expectations are the root of all heartaches". In this world, we all expect too much from almost everyone and when the reality unfolds. We are left with almost nothing but a vexing sense of failure. In life we all get what we deserve, nobody in the world is going to get what he wants, but everybody would get what they deserve and hence expectations surely are nothing except mere pretenses developed by us. The reality will always hold true and in our hearts we all are aware of reality. Miracles don't happen in this real world.
The most important thing is not to expect. We, the human beings are bound to work but not to expect. There is no reason to expect things from anybody in the world. Why should anybody come and help you? Nobody in the world would ever come and take you up, nobody would ever try to come and help you out. There could be many people around you who promise to be you great friends, caretakers etc. but in actuality when you fall down or you fail at something, nobody would come ahead to help you because the pain of your failure is only yours. Nobody else can come and allay your pains. No matter how many good friends you have, how many people actually care for you but at last nobody can assuage the pain of failure that one day you will fail and hence expectations from anybody else in the world and completely fruitless.
Next comes the expectations from God. Don't expect anything from the God itself. If you believe in God and his existence, then also you should never expect anything from him. See, thousands or may be millions of people want to achieve one single thing, when it comes to choice, God would always rank the best people first. And its quite reasonable that those who have worked harder than you would take away the price. We all get what we deserve, nothing less than that, nothing more than that. There are times in our life when things would seem to go out of control, and you would just expect God to come and do a miracle for you like giving you the first position in an exam you have never studied for. This is your expectation. But just do one thing for me, assume that you are the God and there is a person in front of you begging and imploring you, the day before exam to do something and make him stand first in the exam, and on the other side, there is guy who has been working for years on the subject, has undergone many failures but has still worked hard. Whom would go give the first rank? The one who worked hard or the one who came to pray the day before exam. The answer is quite obvious.
Hence in this world, expecting things from other is itself a sin, because this is actually a form of self punishment. Rather than expecting things from the world, work hard on things you want and just do your part of the work and everything would itself get arranged in the most optimum way.
JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT
JAI MA BHARTI
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